First Date Behaviour
100 question cardsFree
100 conversation cards about what counts as acceptable — and what counts as a red flag — on a first date.
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Sets
Every card set in Beni Tanı — from first-date conversation starters and relationship questions for couples to party games and gossip decks. Each set holds 100+ question cards.
Conversation cards are decks of questions built to help people get to know each other faster: you take turns drawing a card, answer the question that comes up, and the conversation deepens on its own. Beni Tanı delivers those decks on your phone instead of in a physical box — 13 card sets, 100 cards each.
Beni Tanı is not one deck of questions; it is a set of decks written separately for different settings. A question that works on a first date falls flat in a close friend group, and a card that lands in a crowd feels too shallow one-on-one. So each set was written for its own room.
All of the sets below are live in the app. Free sets can be played right after you download it; premium sets can be rented by the day. Put the phone on the table and take turns drawing — no setup, no pen, no paper.
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Modern Dating Problems
100 question cardsFree
Ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships — 100 question cards on the unnamed problems of modern relationships.
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Romantic Gestures: Cringe or Sweet?
100 question cardsFree
100 romantic gestures put to a single vote: cringe or sweet? A deck for couples who want to compare taste.
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Best Liar Wins
100 question cardsFree
The card gives the topic, you tell the story, the group guesses true or false. A 100-card party game.
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16+The Gossip Pot
100 question cardsFreeMature content
Starts with light banter, ends in heavy confessions. 100 gossip cards for close friend groups.
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18+Midnight Session (18+)
164 question cardsPremium20₺ / 1 dayAdult content
A 164-card late-night deck for adult couples. Strictly 18+, played with mutual consent.
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18+Between Us: Passion & Pleasure (18+)
100 question cardsPremium20₺ / 1 dayAdult content
A 100-card passion-and-pleasure deck for adult couples. Strictly 18+, played with mutual consent.
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On the Same Page
100 question cardsPremium20₺ / 1 day
A premium 100-card conversation deck that starts with books and does not stay there — from reading habits to the characters you argued with.
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Let’s Meet Again #1
100 question cardsFree
100 question cards that reintroduce you to someone you thought you knew. Opens with questions anyone can answer, ends somewhere nobody expected.
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Let’s Meet Again #2
100 question cardsPremium20₺ / 1 day
A premium 100-card deck that asks not “what are you like” but “what made you this way”. Starts easy, deepens slowly.
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16+Let’s Meet Again #3
100 question cardsPremium20₺ / 1 dayMature content
The final set in the series: regrets, apologies owed, the lies you tell yourself. No question here has an easy answer.
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On the Same Frequency
100 question cardsPremium20₺ / 1 day
You do not love a song for how it sounds but for the story behind it. A premium 100-card deck about music.
View SetRelationship cards for couples
Relationship cards are question decks that put on the table the things couples never quite get around to asking: you take turns drawing a card and answering what comes up. The couples question cards in Beni Tanı are split by the stage of the relationship — a couple who just met and a couple of ten years are not answering the same question.
The relationship question card sets below are written for one-on-one conversation. There are first-date and modern dating sets for people still dating, the Yeniden Tanışalım series for long-term couples, and separate sets for couples aged 18 and over.
First Date Behaviour
Best for: First dates, Early dating, Newly matched couples, One-on-one talks
100 conversation cards about what counts as acceptable — and what counts as a red flag — on a first date.
Modern Dating Problems
Best for: Couples, Long-term dating, Friend groups, Relationship talks
Ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships — 100 question cards on the unnamed problems of modern relationships.
Romantic Gestures: Cringe or Sweet?
Best for: Couples, Valentine's Day, Anniversaries, Friend groups
100 romantic gestures put to a single vote: cringe or sweet? A deck for couples who want to compare taste.
Midnight Session (18+)
Best for: Adult couples (18+), Private, one-on-one settings, Long-term relationships
A 164-card late-night deck for adult couples. Strictly 18+, played with mutual consent.
Between Us: Passion & Pleasure (18+)
Best for: Adult couples (18+), Private, one-on-one settings, Relationships with trust
A 100-card passion-and-pleasure deck for adult couples. Strictly 18+, played with mutual consent.
Let’s Meet Again #1
Best for: Long-term couples, Old friend groups, Family tables, Reconnecting
100 question cards that reintroduce you to someone you thought you knew. Opens with questions anyone can answer, ends somewhere nobody expected.
Let’s Meet Again #2
Best for: Long-term couples, Old friend groups, Family tables, Deep conversation
A premium 100-card deck that asks not “what are you like” but “what made you this way”. Starts easy, deepens slowly.
Let’s Meet Again #3
Best for: Long-term couples, Close friends, Deep conversation, Small trusted tables
The final set in the series: regrets, apologies owed, the lies you tell yourself. No question here has an easy answer.
Which set fits which setting?
Compare the sets by player count, length and setting. A deck that works on a first date will not land the same way in a crowded room.
| Card set | Players | Length | Where it works | Age | Access |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| First Date Behaviour100 question cards | 2 people | 20–40 minutes | First dates, cafés, first dinners | All ages | Free |
| Modern Dating Problems100 question cards | 2–6 people | 30–60 minutes | Couples, friend groups | All ages | Free |
| Romantic Gestures: Cringe or Sweet?100 question cards | 2–8 people | 20–45 minutes | Couples, Valentine’s Day, friend groups | All ages | Free |
| Best Liar Wins100 question cards | 3–20 people | 30–90 minutes | House parties, icebreakers, road trips | All ages | Free |
| Lose-Lose100 question cards | 2–10 people | 20–60 minutes | Friend groups, house gatherings, long drives | All ages | Free |
| The Gossip Pot100 question cards | 3–8 people | 45–90 minutes | Close friend groups, long evenings | 16+ | Free |
| Midnight Session (18+)164 question cards | 2 people (18+) | Open-ended | Private, one-on-one | 18+ | Premium400₺ · One-time purchase20₺ / 1 day · Rental |
| Between Us: Passion & Pleasure (18+)100 question cards | 2 people (18+) | Open-ended | Private, one-on-one | 18+ | Premium400₺ · One-time purchase20₺ / 1 day · Rental |
| On the Same Page100 question cards | 2–6 people | 30–60 minutes | Book clubs, reading couples, cafés | All ages | Premium400₺ · One-time purchase20₺ / 1 day · Rental |
| Let’s Meet Again #1100 question cards | 2–6 people | 30–60 minutes | Old friends, couples, family tables | All ages | Free |
| Let’s Meet Again #2100 question cards | 2–6 people | 30–60 minutes | Old friends, couples, family tables | All ages | Premium400₺ · One-time purchase20₺ / 1 day · Rental |
| Let’s Meet Again #3100 question cards | 2–4 people | 45–90 minutes | Small trusted tables, long-term couples | 16+ | Premium400₺ · One-time purchase20₺ / 1 day · Rental |
| On the Same Frequency100 question cards | 2–6 people | 30–60 minutes | Couples, friend groups, road trips | All ages | Premium400₺ · One-time purchase20₺ / 1 day · Rental |
Frequently asked questions
What are conversation cards?+
Conversation cards are decks of questions built to help people get to know each other faster. You take turns drawing a card and answering the question on it. Because the questions are already written, nobody has to sit through the "what should we talk about" silence, and the conversation moves from small talk to real subjects on its own. Beni Tanı has 13 sets, each with 100 cards.
Do I need to buy a physical deck?+
No. Beni Tanı is an app, not a boxed deck. Most sets are completely free — download it and play without paying anything. Premium sets can be rented by the day or bought outright, but neither is required; the free sets alone are hundreds of cards.
How many people can play?+
Anywhere from two people to a large group. Sets with relationship questions for couples are written for one-on-one conversations, while party sets are built for a crowded table. The comparison table above lists the group size each set suits.
Which set works for couples?+
Relationship cards are split by the stage of the relationship. Couples who just met or are still dating get the most out of "First Date Behaviours" and "Modern Dating Problems", while long-term partners tend to prefer the "Meet Again" series. "Romantic Gestures: Cringe or Sweet?" works for both. There are separate 18+ sets for couples as well.
Does it need an internet connection?+
Once a card set is downloaded, playing it needs no connection. It works on a road trip, around a campfire, or anywhere without signal.
How is this different from a physical card deck?+
Three ways. Price: most sets in the app are free, while boxed decks cost real money. Portability: your phone is already in your pocket, a box is not. Range: one box is one theme, whereas the app keeps 13 sets on hand at once and new ones keep arriving.
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