Modern Dating Problems
Ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships — 100 question cards on the unnamed problems of modern relationships.
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Modern Dating Problems is a free 100-card deck that makes the unnamed problems of modern dating speakable — ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships. The cards do not just debate the concepts; they put your own behaviour on the table. Played by couples and friend groups.
- Players
- 2–6 people
- Length
- 30–60 minutes
- Where it works
- Couples, friend groups
- Card count
- 100 question cards
Modern dating arrives with a vocabulary that did not exist ten years ago: ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationship, soft launch, benching. Everyone uses these words; almost nobody states plainly what they expect. This deck makes that unspoken part speakable.
The cards do not settle for a surface-level “is ghosting bad?” — they put your own behaviour on the table too. Have you left someone mid-conversation? Wanted to be seen by someone without saying so? Chose not to define the relationship yourself? Answers usually turn out more similar than either person assumed, or unexpectedly far apart.
A good fit for couples who want to align early on what counts as “normal”, people who have been dating a while without defining it, and friend groups who want to talk through modern relationship dynamics.
Who is it for?
- Couples
- Long-term dating
- Friend groups
- Relationship talks
Sample questions from this set
- 01Have you ever ghosted someone? Why?
- 02Does leaving a relationship undefined feel safe to you, or unsettling?
- 03What can it signal when someone never posts the relationship?
- 04What do you hear when the other person says “let’s not rush”?
- 05When is a situationship officially over?
Samples are drawn from the cards in this set. In the app all cards come up in random order.
Ready to play this set?
Download Beni Tanı, pick the card set, and put the phone on the table.
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